1Build one place or time in your day that reliably feels safe, and return to it when you need steadying.
Healing needs a floor to stand on. A predictable pocket of safety is that floor; protect it.
Where it sits. Stage 1, Safety and Stabilization (Herman); grounding
Islamic evidence
It is those who have faith, and do not mix their faith with idolatry, who will be secure (Quran 6:82). Security is named as a fruit of a heart anchored in Him.
“It is those who have faith, and do not mix their faith with idolatry, who will be secure, and it is they who are rightly guided.’”
Qur'an 6:82
Psychological evidence
Recovery unfolds in stages, and building safety and steadiness comes first, before facing the memory. You are not behind for needing this stage; it is the ground everything else stands on.
Herman, J. L. (1992). Basic Books
Recovery from trauma unfolds in stages, and establishing safety and stabilisation comes before facing the memory.
Review detail
Why it works. Establishing dependable safety and stabilisation is the necessary first stage before any deeper trauma work.