1With someone grieving, offer your presence more than your words. Sit with them; let silence be enough.
You do not need the right thing to say. Being there, quietly and again and again, is the help.
Where it sits. Supporting the bereaved; social support
Islamic evidence
Be among those who urge one another to steadfastness and compassion (Quran 90:17). Compassion here is mostly showing up and staying.
“and to be one of those who believe and urge one another to steadfastness and compassion”
Qur'an 90:17
Psychological evidence
Feeling supported and accompanied buffers people against the full impact of a loss, and often it is presence, not advice, that does this. Showing up is the intervention.
Cohen, S. and Wills, T. A. (1985). Psychological Bulletin · doi
Perceived social support buffers individuals against the harmful impact of stressful life events.
Review detail
Why it works. Simple, steady presence buffers a grieving person against the worst of the stress.