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Anger
Almost nobody wants to be the person who says the thing they cannot take back. The window between the surge and the words is short and it can be widened. That is most of what this area is about, along with the fear or hurt that anger is usually protecting.
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3 practicesTheme · Cool the body first
How long you have
Approach · Mindfulness
When · Under stress
Angry eyes are not unfocused, they are too focused. Everything funnels down onto the person or thing in front of you and the rest of the room goes missing.
That narrowing is part of why anger feels so certain. You are not seeing less because you are careless, you are seeing less because the state does…
When one thing fills your view, everything around it stops registering. You can be staring hard and taking in almost nothing.
This is why an angry judgement can feel so sharp and turn out to be so poor. The person in front of you has become the whole picture, and the details…
Find something with nothing in it to look at: sky, a blank wall, a ceiling, a stretch of grass. Do not concentrate on it. Let your attention spread out over it.
Hostile thinking needs something to grip, and it will use whatever the eyes hand it. An expanse with no features gives it nothing, so the replay…