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Anger
Almost nobody wants to be the person who says the thing they cannot take back. The window between the surge and the words is short and it can be widened. That is most of what this area is about, along with the fear or hurt that anger is usually protecting.
Narrowed down
3 practicesTheme · The moment before you snap
How long you have · Twenty minutes
Approach · Mindfulness
The hidden finger tap is weaker than a mark on paper. Better to know that now than to find it out when it fails you.
A written page holds you to it. The marks are still there afterwards, and there is no pretending you drifted for ten minutes. So learn it that way…
It helps to get one real taste of this early, in a single sitting, rather than waiting weeks to find out whether any of it is for you.
A first go that actually works gives you a reason to come back, and plenty of people never do come back. But one sitting builds nothing on its own.…
Even one go at this leaves you with something. You have seen for yourself that the anger can be handled, and that does not expire when you walk out of the room.
The picture is not killing the anger off. It is closer to getting a big animal under control and walking it home: still strong, still yours, going…