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Worry and anxiety
Anxiety is not a character flaw and it is not weak faith. It is a body doing what it was built to do, at a moment when it is not needed. The practices here work on the loop itself: what worry promises and never delivers, what avoiding costs you, and how to let the body come down.
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Approach · CBT
When · In a change
A long stretch at home is never neutral time. It teaches two things at once: staying away stops the dread, and staying away is pleasant.
That double lesson is why a few months out is so much harder to undo than a few days. First comes relief, then the slow morning, the screen, the…
Going from talking online to talking in person is not one more step up the same ladder. It is a different ladder, and it deserves rungs of its own.
Those rungs might run from voice notes, to a phone call, to a video call with the camera on, to meeting one person you already know somewhere quiet,…
A group can help a great deal, and it is rarely the place to begin. Being in a room of people is a strong dose, and doses climb rather than start at the top.
Left too early it often ends with someone dropping out, and dropping out gets read as proof they were right about themselves all along. Once there is…
If every step you try keeps not working, however small you make it, that is information rather than failure. A more intensive programme is the next thing to look at, and it should be put to you as an option.
The whole point of shrinking the steps is to find one that moves. When nothing moves at any size, staying in the same weekly arrangement out of…