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Worry and anxiety
Anxiety is not a character flaw and it is not weak faith. It is a body doing what it was built to do, at a moment when it is not needed. The practices here work on the loop itself: what worry promises and never delivers, what avoiding costs you, and how to let the body come down.
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2 practicesTheme · Being seen and judged
Approach · CBT
When · Under stress
If most of your talking happens somewhere everything gets counted, likes, views, replies, then of course a room full of people feels like a scoreboard too. The habit was learned somewhere real.
Notice when the feeling arrives. It is usually before anyone has said anything: a sense that a number is being kept on you. Then name where you…
Unless you have turned up somewhere in fancy dress, you are not the main thing on anyone's mind. Most of the people around you are working out where to park and what they are going to eat.
This is not a trick for making the feeling vanish. The feeling usually hangs about for a while. It is more that when you walk in and the whole room…