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Worry and anxiety
Anxiety is not a character flaw and it is not weak faith. It is a body doing what it was built to do, at a moment when it is not needed. The practices here work on the loop itself: what worry promises and never delivers, what avoiding costs you, and how to let the body come down.
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3 practicesTheme · What worry does
How long you have · Five minutes
When · Under stress
You do not have to win the argument in your head before your body is allowed to settle. The two run on separate tracks and you can work on either.
Plenty of people stay locked in the thinking, sure that once the question is finally answered the shaking will stop. It rarely happens in that order.…
There is a difference between being disappointed with how things are and having given up on how things will be. The second needs a different level of care.
Disappointment still has a future attached to it: this is bad, and later might not be. Hopelessness has closed that off. If you hear someone move…
For some people the racing heart arrives before any thought at all, and the frightening explanation follows the sensation. If that is you, there is no thought to catch, so start with the body.
Build the physical steadying first, at a quiet time when nothing is happening, so that something is ready to reach for when it does. Slow breathing…