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Low mood and hard feelings
Feelings are information before they are problems. The practices here are about naming what you feel accurately, sitting with what will not move yet, and acting on what matters to you even on the days nothing feels like anything.
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2 practicesHow long you have · Five minutes
Approach · CBT
When · Under stress
When a thought lands hard, ask whether you know it for certain, and what you would actually put forward if you had to make the case. Then go looking for the bits that point the other way.
Do this once you have settled a little, not in the worst of it, or the questions become another way of arguing with yourself. Write the answers down…
Imagine yourself some years from now, well past this, and let that version of you say something to you about today. Write down whatever arrives.
It sounds like a party trick and it usually is not. The future you tends to speak in a tone you cannot yet manage towards yourself, less panicked and…