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Low mood and hard feelings
Feelings are information before they are problems. The practices here are about naming what you feel accurately, sitting with what will not move yet, and acting on what matters to you even on the days nothing feels like anything.
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7 practicesHow long you have · Five minutes
Approach · DBT skills
When · Any ordinary day
Repetition is what makes anything stick, and it does not check whether the thing is good for you. That is most of what addiction is.
It is the same machinery that lets somebody pick up a language or a trade, running in the part of the brain built for wanting rather than the part…
Drink can make talking easy and still leave you with friendships that feel like nothing. Worth noticing which of those two you actually came for.
One young woman put it plainly: drinking took away the worry about what she was saying, and the people she grew close to were mostly the ones she…
Distant health warnings move almost nobody. The cost that lands is the one showing up this month: your memory, your marks, the work you know you could be doing.
So keep it specific and keep it near. Heavy drinking in the teens and early twenties shows up in memory and in school work, which is the exact ground…
What you tried at that age is a poor guide to what is in front of your child now. Cannabis today is far stronger than the same word used to mean.
The sentence that closes most of these conversations is I turned out fine. Try a different one: ask what it does for them, when they reach for it,…
The fog after cannabis is not gone by morning. In younger users learning can stay dulled for several days, so Saturday night is still in the room on Wednesday.
That changes what to look at. Rather than arguing about the night itself, keep a rough note of the days that follow: what got read, what stayed in,…
Nicotine looks like the small problem next to everything else going on, and it is the one most likely to still be here in thirty years.
Most adults who smoke started as teenagers, and the earlier the start the harder the eventual stopping tends to be. So it earns a place on the list…
Accepting reality as it is means dropping the fight with what has already happened. It does not mean staying somewhere that is still harming you.
The two get confused often, usually by people who were told to be patient by whoever benefited from their patience. A rough test: acceptance is for…