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Low mood and hard feelings

Feelings are information before they are problems. The practices here are about naming what you feel accurately, sitting with what will not move yet, and acting on what matters to you even on the days nothing feels like anything.

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Tolerate distress Mindfulness Clear all

Theme · Tolerate distress

Name what you feel 3 Calm the body 3 Tolerate distress 2 Ride the urge 2 Working with anger 1

How long you have

A minute 1 Five minutes 1

Approach · Mindfulness

Body based 13 DBT skills 12 Mindfulness 2

Tell yourself the true thing: this feeling is real, and it is temporary. No state lasts. Ride it out.

You do not have to fix it right now. You only have to outlast it. Feelings crest and fall like weather.

A minuteTolerate distressMindfulnessQur’an 93:5

Soothe yourself through the senses: a warm drink, a soft cloth, a good scent, a slow walk. Be kind to the body.

When you cannot fix the feeling, comfort the one who is feeling it. Small kindnesses to the body settle the mind.

Five minutesTolerate distressMindfulnessQur’an 93:6