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Focus, starting, and ADHD
Most advice about focus is written for a brain that starts easily. This area is not. It covers what ADHD actually is, how to make a start when starting is the hard part, how to bring a future consequence close enough to feel, and how to stop paying for it in shame.
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3 practicesTheme · Screens and attention
How long you have · Longer
Approach
When · Under stress
Asked what all the scrolling had done to her most, one young woman did not say sad. She said angry, more or less all the time.
Constant irritability in a teenager usually gets worked up as depression or ADHD, and sometimes that is right. Saturation belongs on the list too,…
For some people the online part is not a side issue sitting next to the depression or the anxiety. It is one of the things holding them in place.
One young woman with a history of being bullied found her platform use feeding the depression, the social anxiety, the fear of leaving the house and…
There is a rough ladder for tech overuse. Build a schedule together with some outside control at first, add substitutes once the person can stop for a while, then more intensive care, and residential only when someone is entirely taken over by it.
The order matters more than the rungs. You cannot install a better alternative in someone who has no capacity yet to put the thing down, so a bit of…