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Focus, starting, and ADHD

Most advice about focus is written for a brain that starts easily. This area is not. It covers what ADHD actually is, how to make a start when starting is the hard part, how to bring a future consequence close enough to feel, and how to stop paying for it in shame.

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Reading, numbers and learning differences Twenty minutes Under stress Clear all

Theme · Reading, numbers and learning differences

Systems for daily life 4 Screens and attention 3 Feelings and focus 3 Getting assessed and diagnosed 2 Reading, numbers and learning differences 2 Shame and stigma 1 Remembering to do it 1 Get started 1 Exercise, food and other supports 1 Medication and how it works 1 Treatment and medication 1

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If a parent has been saying since the first year of school that something is wrong with their child's reading, start from the assumption that they are right. They have watched more of it than anyone else has.

The usual story is years of being told the child is fine, a little behind, will catch up, and then a diagnosis at nine or ten when the easiest years…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 80:3

A child who cannot bear the noise, the lights and the scratchy jumper all day will be hard to be around by the afternoon. That child usually gets described as badly behaved rather than as overwhelmed.

Once a child is understood to be choosing it, everything that follows is punishment, the arousal climbs, and the sensory difficulty gets worse. That…

Twenty minutesReading, numbers and learning differencesCoreQur’an 49:11