How to raise it, and what to say

With a doctor, do not start with the word depression, because you will spend the appointment defending the label. Start with what has changed. I have not been sleeping since March. I have stopped cooking. I cannot make myself reply to anyone. Say how long. Say what you can no longer do.

Write those three lines down before you go in, and read them off the paper if you need to. Ten minutes goes very fast and low mood makes words slow.

With an imam, be clear about what you are asking for. If you want a ruling, ask for a ruling. If what you want is for somebody to know, say that. Many will point you to a doctor as well, and that is a good sign rather than a brush off.