What is actually being claimed about your worth

Underneath the flat feeling there is a belief about what a person is worth. Where you got the belief matters, because you did not get it from the text.

If your worth is your appearance, your income, your marriage or your output, then the feed is a live scoreboard and you are losing on it all day, every day, to people you will never meet.

The text says something else and it says it without hedging.