1Name one hard thing today and ask what it might be growing in you: patience, humility, nearness to God.
Not denying the difficulty. Finding the meaning inside it that makes it bearable.
Where it sits. Emotion regulation, cognitive reappraisal (CBT)
Islamic evidence
With hardship comes ease; truly with hardship comes ease (Qur'an 94:5-6). The ease is promised alongside the difficulty, not only after it.
“So truly where there is hardship there is also ease”
Qur'an 94:5
“truly where there is hardship there is also ease”
Qur'an 94:6
Psychological evidence
Reappraising hardship as something with meaning, not only something to endure, is among the surest ways to steady the heart.
Gross, J. J.; John, O. P. (2003). Journal of Personality and Social Psychology · doi
Cognitive reappraisal, reframing a situation, is linked to better mood, relationships and wellbeing than bottling feelings up.
Review detail
Why it works. Finding meaning or benefit within adversity reliably supports coping and wellbeing.