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Once a day, go from head to feet and notice what is there. A good deal of what you find will be plain need: thirsty, hungry, needing the loo, needing to stand up.
When you get absorbed in something these signals go unheard for hours, and then you wonder why you feel dreadful by four o'clock. The scan is dull, and that is fine. Head, jaw, shoulders, chest, stomach, hands, legs, feet. Answering what you find is half the point. The other half is that noticing bodily signals at all makes moods easier to read, since a good deal of what we call a mood is first felt in the body.
Qur’an and Sunnah
who provides them with food to ward off hunger, safety to ward off fear (Quran 106:4). Hunger and fear sit side by side in one short verse, close to the way the body files them.
ٱلَّذِيٓ أَطۡعَمَهُم مِّن جُوعࣲ وَءَامَنَهُم مِّنۡ خَوۡفِۭ
who provides them with food to ward off hunger, safety to ward off fear
Qur’an 106:4read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
What the research says
A systematic review of interoception and vagal tone found that how well people sense their internal state is associated with how well they regulate emotion. Most of the studies were cross-sectional, so it shows the two travelling together rather than proving that training one improves the other. It is enough to make body awareness worth building rather than dismissing.
Pinna T, Edwards DJ. (2020). A Systematic Review of Associations Between Interoception, Vagal Tone, and Emotional Regulation: Potential Applications for Mental Health, Wellbeing, Psychological Flexibility, and Chronic Conditions.. Frontiers in psychology doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
Why it works
You cannot meet a need you never noticed, and much of what feels like a bad mood is an unmet one.
This one is still a draft. It is waiting on a scholar and a clinician to read it before it is published.
Near this one
When you have gone numb rather than frantic, try a long low sound on the out breath. Voo, drawn out until the breath runs out, so your lips and chest buzz with it.
Slide your right hand under your left arm so it rests at the side of your chest, and lay your left hand on your right shoulder. Then just sit, and notice whatever happens between your hands.
Instead of breathing deeply in general, pick the place that feels tight, the front of the ribs, the chest, one shoulder, and send the breath there.