Areas › Focus, starting, and ADHD › Your sense of time
A list on the back of an envelope, made before the day starts, beats holding the day in your head. It does not have to be neat and it does not have to survive contact with the morning.
Write what has to happen and roughly in what order, and keep it where you will see it. Two things come out of that. You have made one deliberate decision about the day rather than letting each hour pick itself, and you have something to check against at noon, which is when the drift is still fixable.
Qur’an and Sunnah
We have explained everything in detail (Quran 17:12), the same verse that gives night and day for counting the years. Setting things out clearly is treated as a help, not a fuss.
وَجَعَلۡنَا ٱلَّيۡلَ وَٱلنَّهَارَ ءَايَتَيۡنِۖ فَمَحَوۡنَآ ءَايَةَ ٱلَّيۡلِ وَجَعَلۡنَآ ءَايَةَ ٱلنَّهَارِ مُبۡصِرَةࣰ لِّتَبۡتَغُواْ فَضۡلࣰ ا مِّن رَّبِّكُمۡ وَلِتَعۡلَمُواْ عَدَدَ ٱلسِّنِينَ وَٱلۡحِسَابَۚ وَكُلَّ شَيۡءࣲ فَصَّلۡنَٰهُ تَفۡصِيلࣰ ا
We made the night and the day as two signs, then darkened the night and made the daylight for seeing, for you to seek your Lord’s bounty and to know how to count the years and calculate. We have explained everything in detail
Qur’an 17:12read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
What the research says
In 114 undergraduates, the relation between putting things off and attention difficulties ran through executive functions, particularly time management, organisation and problem solving. That is a cross sectional student sample, so it cannot show that improving organisation reduces delay. It does place organising and planning inside the difficulty rather than outside it.
Bolden J, Fillauer JP. (2020). "Tomorrow is the busiest day of the week": Executive functions mediate the relation between procrastination and attention problems.. Journal of American college health : J of ACH doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
Why it works
A plan on paper stays put while your memory of it quietly rearranges itself.
This one is still a draft. It is waiting on a scholar and a clinician to read it before it is published.
Near this one
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A clever workaround can hide a difficulty for years. A child who memorises what he cannot read looks fine, right up until the amount to be read grows past what memory can carry.