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Cold water on your face, particularly at the hairline and around the lips, sets off a reflex that slows the heart. It is one of the few things fast enough to interrupt real panic.
A splash at the sink, a few minutes outside in cold air, or a bowl of cold water if you have one to hand. There is a quieter version for when you cannot leave the room: hold a mouthful of cool water and pay attention to the temperature with your tongue. Practise it on an ordinary day so that it is already familiar on the day you need it.
Qur’an and Sunnah
'Do not be afraid, I am with you both' (Quran 20:46). Something steadying arriving from outside you is the shape of this one.
قَالَ لَا تَخَافَآۖ إِنَّنِي مَعَكُمَآ أَسۡمَعُ وَأَرَىٰ
He said, ‘Do not be afraid, I am with you both, hearing and seeing everything
Qur’an 20:46read it in the library
Translation: M.A.S. Abdel Haleem, The Qur'an, Oxford University Press, 2004.
What the research says
A systematic review of interoception in chronic pain found that people with persistent pain perceive their internal bodily state differently, and it separates accuracy, self reported sensitivity and awareness as three distinct things. Sensing temperature or heartbeat is not equally straightforward for everybody, which is worth knowing before you judge your own results. The review does not test cold water, so that part is practice wisdom rather than evidence from this bank.
Di Lernia D, Serino S, Riva G. (2016). Pain in the body. Altered interoception in chronic pain conditions: A systematic review.. Neuroscience and biobehavioral reviews doi
Strength of evidence: one line of research. A single study, or a theoretical account.
Why it works
Cold on the face sets off a hardwired reflex that slows things down before any thinking is involved.
When not to
If you are using this to get through urges to harm yourself, tell somebody and get proper support alongside it, and avoid very cold water if you have a heart condition.
This one is still a draft. It is waiting on a scholar and a clinician to read it before it is published.
Near this one
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Most of the research on this programme was done with autistic children. For trauma, what exists is case reports and studies still under way.