Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
2 practicesHow long you have
Who it is written for · My husband or wife
On your own, or with someone · Both of us together
Theme · Systems for daily life
When you agree to something, agree who follows up. Do you tell them if it slips, or do they check in with you?
Most of the hurt around late work comes from nobody having said. You assume they will ask, they assume you will speak up, and the silence in between…
If you keep it all in your head, it is worth asking who else is keeping it. Very often somebody nearby is doing the remembering, and neither of you has ever said so out loud.
This matters because from outside it looks like coping, right up until that person is away, unwell or worn out by it. Ask the plain question at home:…
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