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Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Practising under provocation remove filterMy husband or wife remove filterInvolves someone else remove filterClear all
Who it is written for · My husband or wife
A practitioner 3Me 3Someone I care about 1My husband or wife 1
On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else
Both of us together 2Involves someone else 1
Theme · Practising under provocation
Staying regulated in conflict 24Knowing your partner 15Affection and touch 13Listening and understanding 12Rebuilding trust 12Answering bids 11Repair after rupture 11Rituals of connection 11Shared spiritual life 10Emotions as signals 7What anger actually is 4Remembering to do it 4Your nervous system 3What you are actually defending 2Your sense of time 2Shame 2The moment before you snap 2Gratitude 2Fondness and admiration 2Equanimity and perspective 2Bringing the future closer 2Practising under provocation 1Growing empathy 1Treatment and medication 1When you go numb 1Systems for daily life 1Choosing your response 1Feelings and focus 1

Going silent and hard is not a neutral act. A fixed stare and a set brow land on the other person's body as threat, even though you have not said a word.

People often think they are being restrained when they go cold, and are then surprised by how frightened or defensive the other person becomes. If…

A minutePractising under provocationCBTQur’an 25:63

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