Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else
Theme · Shame

You did not choose which things hurt you. Where you are tender was set long before you had any say in it, and the only live question is what you do with it now.

This is worth saying out loud between two people, because each usually thinks their own soft spot is embarrassing and the other's is obvious. Try…

Five minutesShameEmotionally focusedQur’an 30:54

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