Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Who it is written for

My husband or wife 1 Me 1 A practitioner 1

Where you are right now · Struggling right now

Coping, mostly 1 Struggling right now 1

On your own, or with someone · Involves someone else

On my own 10 Both of us together 4 Involves someone else 1

Theme · Shame

Screens and attention 13 The cost of avoiding 11 Medication and how it works 8 Systems for daily life 5 What ADHD actually is 5 What worry does 4 Grounding and settling 4 Reading, numbers and learning differences 4 Breaking the worry loop 4 Feelings and focus 3 Remembering to do it 3 Your nervous system 3 Treatment and medication 3 What anger actually is 3 Posture and how you carry yourself 3 Getting assessed and diagnosed 2 Emotions as signals 2 Moving your body 2 Shame and stigma 2 Structure and routine 2 The moment before you snap 2 Touch and bodywork 2 Treatment and medication 1 Shame 1 Your sense of time 1 Rest and pacing 1 Practising under provocation 1 Exercise, food and other supports 1 Obsessions and compulsions 1 When you go numb 1 Get started 1 Feeling from the inside 1 Growing empathy 1 Food, caffeine and fuel 1 When you use something to cope 1 Cool the body first 1 Choosing your response 1 Bringing the future closer 1

There is a real difference between not caring and not knowing how. A lot of what gets called failing at a relationship is simply a skill nobody ever taught you.

If you go blank when your partner cries, or answer hurt with logic, ask who ever showed you anything better. Probably nobody did. A gap like that can…

Five minutesShameEmotionally focusedQur’an 93:7

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