Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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Theme · Working with anger
What anger actually is 83The fear underneath anger 50Choosing your response 44The moment before you snap 35Equanimity and perspective 22Making it stick 15Reading, numbers and learning differences 14Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Staying regulated in conflict 12What you are actually defending 12Getting assessed and diagnosed 7When anger turns to harm 7Screens and attention 6Fondness and admiration 5Answering bids 5Cool the body first 5Repair after rupture 4Gratitude 4Question the thought 3Act on your values 2Rituals of connection 2Shared spiritual life 2Treatment and medication 2Working with anger 2Knowing your partner 2Affection and touch 1
Approach · Core
Catch the first body sign of anger, the jaw, the chest, the heat, and name it there.
Caught early, anger can be chosen. Caught late, it chooses for you.
When anger floods you, step away before you speak, and come back when your body is calm.
Past a certain heat the body cannot hear reason. Leave, settle, and return.
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