Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
Who it is written for
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Affection and touch
The moment before you snap 30Cool the body first 30Grounding and settling 27Choosing your response 26Touch and bodywork 22Your nervous system 20What anger actually is 18The fear underneath anger 15Equanimity and perspective 14Tolerate distress 10Breathing 10Feelings and focus 9Staying regulated in conflict 9Feeling from the inside 8Practising under provocation 7Medication and how it works 7Moving your body 7Making it stick 6Systems for daily life 6Bringing the future closer 6Shame 5Breaking the worry loop 5What worry does 5Question the thought 5Food, caffeine and fuel 5Treatment and medication 4Letting it out safely 4Facing it a step at a time 4Get started 4What you are actually defending 4When everything feels flat 4Shame and stigma 4Emotions as signals 3Calm the body 3Growing empathy 3Let the wave come 3Name what you feel 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Working with anger 3Self-compassion 2Your sense of time 2Safety and grounding 2Ride the urge 2Patience and trust 2Exercise, food and other supports 2Meaning after harm 2Knowing your partner 2Getting assessed and diagnosed 2When you use something to cope 2Being seen and judged 2Answering bids 2When anger turns to harm 2Screens and attention 2Affection and touch 1Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Care for yourself in loss 1Remembering to do it 1Rebuild trust 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Panic and the body 1Validate yourself and others 1What ADHD actually is 1Act on your values 1The cost of avoiding 1Listen to the body 1Your window of tolerance 1
When · Under stress

When fear or hurt makes you want to hide today, reach for your spouse instead.

The instinct is to withdraw. Do the opposite: move toward, take a hand, let them in.

A minuteAffection and touchEmotionally focusedQur’an 9:40

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