Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
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2 practicesHow long you have · A minute
Theme · Let the wave come
Choosing your response 34The moment before you snap 34Staying regulated in conflict 32Cool the body first 29What anger actually is 24Your nervous system 24Grounding and settling 21The fear underneath anger 20Get started 19Bringing the future closer 18Medication and how it works 16Equanimity and perspective 14Your sense of time 14Treatment and medication 13Answering bids 13Fondness and admiration 13Making it stick 12Systems for daily life 12Structure and routine 12Practising under provocation 11Touch and bodywork 11Feelings and focus 11Growing empathy 10Food, caffeine and fuel 9Knowing your partner 9Exercise, food and other supports 8What ADHD actually is 8Gratitude 7Tolerate distress 7Remembering to do it 7Screens and attention 6Repair after rupture 6What worry does 6When everything feels flat 6Moving your body 6Treatment and medication 5Shared spiritual life 5Shame and stigma 5Breathing 5Being seen and judged 5What you are actually defending 5Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Self-compassion 4Question the thought 4Feeling from the inside 4Facing it a step at a time 3When you use something to cope 3Name what you feel 3Posture and how you carry yourself 2Patience and trust 2Hold a boundary 2Shame 2Panic and the body 2Working with anger 2Ride the urge 2Your worth is not conditional 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Meaning after harm 2Emotions as signals 2Rituals of connection 2Calm the body 2Safety and grounding 2Let the wave come 2Affection and touch 2Rebuilding trust 2Validate yourself and others 1Obsessions and compulsions 1When you go numb 1Listening and understanding 1Listen to the body 1Rest and pacing 1Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Keep the bond 1Get it out of your head 1Your window of tolerance 1Breaking the worry loop 1Act on your values 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Care for yourself in loss 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1When anger turns to harm 1
When grief rises like a wave, let it come and let it pass. Do not brace against it or push it down.
Grief arrives in waves, not a straight line. A wave allowed to rise will also fall. Fighting it is what makes it last.
Let yourself weep. Tears over someone you love are not a failure of faith or of strength.
Crying is not the opposite of patience. It is the body grieving honestly, and it passes more cleanly when it is not shamed.
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