Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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8 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Exercise, food and other supports
Choosing your response 34The moment before you snap 34Staying regulated in conflict 32Cool the body first 29Your nervous system 24What anger actually is 24Grounding and settling 21The fear underneath anger 20Get started 19Bringing the future closer 18Medication and how it works 16Your sense of time 14Equanimity and perspective 14Answering bids 13Fondness and admiration 13Treatment and medication 13Making it stick 12Systems for daily life 12Structure and routine 12Feelings and focus 11Practising under provocation 11Touch and bodywork 11Growing empathy 10Knowing your partner 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Exercise, food and other supports 8What ADHD actually is 8Tolerate distress 7Remembering to do it 7Gratitude 7Screens and attention 6When everything feels flat 6What worry does 6Moving your body 6Repair after rupture 6Breathing 5What you are actually defending 5Treatment and medication 5Being seen and judged 5Shame and stigma 5Shared spiritual life 5Feeling from the inside 4Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Question the thought 4Self-compassion 4Name what you feel 3Facing it a step at a time 3When you use something to cope 3Rituals of connection 2Meaning after harm 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Panic and the body 2Patience and trust 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Rebuilding trust 2Ride the urge 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Let the wave come 2Safety and grounding 2Hold a boundary 2Shame 2Affection and touch 2Working with anger 2Your worth is not conditional 2Emotions as signals 2Calm the body 2Breaking the worry loop 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Get it out of your head 1Rest and pacing 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1When anger turns to harm 1Listen to the body 1Obsessions and compulsions 1When you go numb 1Care for yourself in loss 1Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Keep the bond 1Act on your values 1Validate yourself and others 1Your window of tolerance 1Listening and understanding 1

There is no brain scan, EEG trace or blood test that can tell you whether someone has ADHD. Anything sold as an objective biological test for it is promising more than the science can give.

Group differences do exist, including in the theta to beta balance, but a difference that appears when you average hundreds of people cannot identify…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:247

Balance difficulties do turn up more often in ADHD, by something like half again. That is a fact about company, not about cause, and it does not turn balance training into a treatment.

Plenty of things could sit behind a link like that. More falls and knocks, more risk taken, or genetics feeding both at once. Working on balance…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Protocols that spin a child in a chair or tip them backwards and forwards to train balance do not improve ADHD. What they mainly produce is a dizzy child.

There is a cost beyond the wasted afternoons. Something unpleasant that was introduced as treatment teaches a child what treatment feels like, and…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

The amount in a capsule can vary from bottle to bottle, and sometimes between capsules in the same bottle. Undeclared fillers have been found in them too.

This matters most when you are trying to work out whether something helps you. A good month followed by a flat one may be two different products…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Kava can damage the liver at a high enough dose, badly enough that some countries have banned it. Herbal is not a synonym for gentle.

The unnerving part is how quiet liver damage is. Someone self medicating anxiety with kava can be accumulating harm and feel nothing at all until it…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

Vitamin C cannot really be stockpiled, since the excess leaves in your urine. A, D, E and K are stored in fat, so a large daily dose keeps adding to itself.

Vitamin D is where this bites at the moment, after a lot of people started taking big amounts on their own during the pandemic years. If you are…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:31

Omega supplements thin the blood, so they usually do not belong alongside warfarin. Bruising easily is often the first thing anyone notices.

One clinician worked out that her husband's bruising came from taking omegas on top of his Coumadin, and it settled once his doctor told him to stop.…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

If fish oil gives you those horrible repeats all afternoon, that is a fixable problem rather than a reason to stop. Keep the capsules in the freezer, ask about an enteric coated version, or try a flavoured liquid.

Sticking with something usually fails for small unglamorous reasons like this. Someone with a sensitive palate will not last four weeks with an…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

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