Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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2 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone · On my own
Theme · Posture and how you carry yourself
Choosing your response 34The moment before you snap 34Staying regulated in conflict 32Cool the body first 29Your nervous system 24What anger actually is 24Grounding and settling 21The fear underneath anger 20Get started 19Bringing the future closer 18Medication and how it works 16Your sense of time 14Equanimity and perspective 14Answering bids 13Treatment and medication 13Fondness and admiration 13Making it stick 12Systems for daily life 12Structure and routine 12Feelings and focus 11Practising under provocation 11Touch and bodywork 11Growing empathy 10Food, caffeine and fuel 9Knowing your partner 9Exercise, food and other supports 8What ADHD actually is 8Gratitude 7Tolerate distress 7Remembering to do it 7What worry does 6Screens and attention 6When everything feels flat 6Moving your body 6Repair after rupture 6Shared spiritual life 5Shame and stigma 5What you are actually defending 5Treatment and medication 5Being seen and judged 5Breathing 5Feeling from the inside 4Self-compassion 4Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Question the thought 4When you use something to cope 3Name what you feel 3Facing it a step at a time 3Rituals of connection 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Ride the urge 2Shame 2Rebuilding trust 2Posture and how you carry yourself 2Affection and touch 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Working with anger 2Your worth is not conditional 2Let the wave come 2Hold a boundary 2Emotions as signals 2Meaning after harm 2Calm the body 2Safety and grounding 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 1Breaking the worry loop 1Care for yourself in loss 1Rest and pacing 1Keep the bond 1When anger turns to harm 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Act on your values 1Listening and understanding 1Validate yourself and others 1Listen to the body 1Obsessions and compulsions 1When you go numb 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Your window of tolerance 1
When

You are not here for a longer hamstring. You are here for a nervous system that can change gear, work when work is needed and settle when it is not.

An ordinary class measures you against the shape, and that measuring is the same self driving that wore you out in the first place. The therapeutic…

A minutePosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 31:19

When attention has nowhere to settle, give it something. A fixed point on the floor, the breath, the shape your hands are making, or the plain feel of the position you are in.

Which one you choose matters more than people expect. Focusing on the breath turns attention inward, and inward is the wrong direction for anyone…

A minutePosture and how you carry yourselfBody basedQur’an 22:26

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