Practices
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Theme · Working with anger
Your nervous system 52Medication and how it works 52What anger actually is 45Choosing your response 41Get started 41Systems for daily life 39The moment before you snap 39The fear underneath anger 38Equanimity and perspective 36Staying regulated in conflict 36Your sense of time 31Bringing the future closer 30Touch and bodywork 30Moving your body 30Treatment and medication 27When everything feels flat 26Exercise, food and other supports 26Getting assessed and diagnosed 26Feelings and focus 25Grounding and settling 22What ADHD actually is 21Practising under provocation 19Food, caffeine and fuel 19Cool the body first 18Structure and routine 18Making it stick 18Screens and attention 17What worry does 17What you are actually defending 17Treatment and medication 16Breathing 15Growing empathy 15Answering bids 13Fondness and admiration 13Feeling from the inside 12Shame and stigma 12Being seen and judged 12Righteous anger and perfectionism 12Remembering to do it 11Knowing your partner 10Self-compassion 8Emotions as signals 8Tolerate distress 8Repair after rupture 8Gratitude 7Shared spiritual life 7Use your strengths 7Breaking the worry loop 7When you use something to cope 7Anger, alcohol and the body 6Facing it a step at a time 6When anger turns to harm 5Question the thought 5Meaning after harm 4Act on your values 3Calm the body 3Let the wave come 3Name what you feel 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Posture and how you carry yourself 3Rebuilding trust 3Safety and grounding 3Working with anger 3Your worth is not conditional 3Ride the urge 2Rest and pacing 2Hold a boundary 2Get it out of your head 2Find meaning 2Face it gently 2Care for yourself in loss 2Rituals of connection 2Patience and trust 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Your window of tolerance 2Work with your brain 2Affection and touch 2Listen to the body 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Keep the bond 2Validate yourself and others 1The cost of avoiding 1Panic and the body 1Living with uncertainty 1When you go numb 1Listening and understanding 1
Approach
Choose one short remembrance to say the moment anger rises, and use it every single time.
A prepared word of dhikr catches the anger before it speaks for you.
Catch the first body sign of anger, the jaw, the chest, the heat, and name it there.
Caught early, anger can be chosen. Caught late, it chooses for you.
When anger floods you, step away before you speak, and come back when your body is calm.
Past a certain heat the body cannot hear reason. Leave, settle, and return.
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