Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

3 practices
How long you have
Who it is written for · My husband or wife
Theme
Approach · Core
When · Coming and going

Take ten quiet minutes to decompress before you walk in the door.

Arriving already softened means the day's stress is not spent on the person you love.

Five minutesStaying regulated in conflictCoreQur’an 3:159

Do not let leaving or arriving happen silently.

Today, mark both thresholds. Before you leave, find your spouse and say goodbye properly, face to face. When you come back, find them before you do…

A minuteRituals of connectionCoreQur’an 4:19

When you come home, find them first, before the post, the phone, the kitchen.

The first half-minute of reunion often sets the tone for the whole evening.

A minuteRituals of connectionCoreQur’an 30:21

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