Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
3 practicesHow long you have
Who it is written for
Theme · Rituals of connection
What anger actually is 58Reading, numbers and learning differences 31Choosing your response 30The fear underneath anger 26The moment before you snap 17Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Getting assessed and diagnosed 13Equanimity and perspective 13Making it stick 12Screens and attention 10What you are actually defending 9Knowing your partner 6When anger turns to harm 6Gratitude 5Treatment and medication 5Fondness and admiration 4Shared spiritual life 4Affection and touch 4Cool the body first 3Rituals of connection 3Answering bids 3Act on your values 2Question the thought 1Staying regulated in conflict 1
Approach · Core
When · Any ordinary day
Say plainly when you are here and for how long, so they never have to guess.
Naming your presence is a small gift that removes the guesswork of whether you are reachable.
Go to bed at the same time tonight.
Small shared rhythms, sleeping and waking and eating together, are the scaffolding of closeness.
Share one meal today with nothing else happening, no screen, no rush.
Undivided attention over something ordinary is a small daily ritual of belonging.
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