Practices

You cannot talk yourself out of a state you are not in yet. Anything you want to have available when you are angry has to be practised, not merely understood.

Reading about a technique and having it in your hands with a hot face are two different things. So rehearse while you are calm and it feels a bit…

What changes things is what you actually rehearse. Advice you agreed with does very little on its own.

So take one thing and repeat it rather than collecting ten good ideas. One breathing practice, one line to say, one route out of the room. Repeated…

No medicine installs a skill. Staying steady when you are provoked is closer to a language you practise than to something anyone can prescribe you.

Medication can settle sleep, mood or attention, and that can be what makes practice possible in the first place. The response you actually want,…

Hours in a room do not do the work on their own. If you are counting sessions towards a total, the count will run out and leave you roughly where you started.

This bites hardest when the attendance was ordered rather than chosen. A better question at the end of each week is what you practised and what…