Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

3 practices
How long you have
Who it is written for · A practitioner
Where you are right now · Getting ready for something
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Structure and routine

Rather than arguing that someone ought to get organised, ask one question. Would your life be better if fewer things slipped, fewer people were annoyed with you, and you spent less of the day worrying about what you had forgotten?

The answer is nearly always yes, and it lands differently when the person says it instead of hearing it. Keep the list concrete and drawn from their…

A minuteStructure and routineADHD skillsQur’an 11:114

Think of a calendar as memory kept outside your head rather than as a test of discipline. Its whole job is to answer what you should be doing now, so that you do not have to work it out.

That framing matters if planners have ever felt like a judgement on you. Nobody expects anyone to hold a phone number in their head any more. The…

A minuteStructure and routineADHD skillsQur’an 6:96

By your teens you need some way, any way, of answering one question: given that it is this time on this day, what should I be doing? A plain system that answers it beats a beautiful one that does not.

Paper, phone, whiteboard on the fridge, the format is not the point. If the answer depends on remembering, it depends on luck. Pick the thing you…

Five minutesStructure and routineADHD skillsQur’an 4:103

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.