Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Panic and the body
The moment before you snap 32Cool the body first 30Grounding and settling 29Choosing your response 28Touch and bodywork 22Staying regulated in conflict 20Your nervous system 19What anger actually is 18The fear underneath anger 15Equanimity and perspective 15Feelings and focus 12Tolerate distress 11Breathing 10Answering bids 9Systems for daily life 9Moving your body 8Feeling from the inside 8Practising under provocation 8Medication and how it works 7What worry does 7Breaking the worry loop 6Shame 6Affection and touch 6Making it stick 6Bringing the future closer 6Knowing your partner 5When everything feels flat 5What you are actually defending 5Food, caffeine and fuel 5Question the thought 5Treatment and medication 5Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Letting it out safely 4Get started 4Growing empathy 4Emotions as signals 4Getting assessed and diagnosed 4Calm the body 3The cost of avoiding 3Being seen and judged 3Facing it a step at a time 3Let the wave come 3Listening and understanding 3Name what you feel 3Obsessions and compulsions 3Exercise, food and other supports 3Righteous anger and perfectionism 3Safety and grounding 3Screens and attention 3Working with anger 3Self-compassion 2Meaning after harm 2When anger turns to harm 2When you use something to cope 2Ride the urge 2Your sense of time 2Rebuild trust 2Patience and trust 2Panic and the body 1Listen to the body 1Care for yourself in loss 1Act on your values 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Shared spiritual life 1Structure and routine 1Treatment and medication 1Validate yourself and others 1What ADHD actually is 1Rest and pacing 1Your window of tolerance 1Repair after rupture 1Remembering to do it 1
When · Under stress

The speed is why these work and also what they cost. Relief that lands within the half hour is the most teachable kind there is, and what it teaches is to reach for it sooner next time.

How fast a drug comes on drives that learning more than how long it hangs around afterwards. Better to name it out loud with someone than leave them…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

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