Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Letting it out safely
Staying regulated in conflict 46The moment before you snap 39Choosing your response 36Cool the body first 33What anger actually is 25Your nervous system 24Grounding and settling 24Medication and how it works 23Systems for daily life 22Bringing the future closer 22Answering bids 22The fear underneath anger 21Get started 20Equanimity and perspective 17Your sense of time 15Fondness and admiration 15Treatment and medication 14Affection and touch 14Knowing your partner 14Practising under provocation 14Growing empathy 13Repair after rupture 13Making it stick 13Structure and routine 12Touch and bodywork 12Feelings and focus 12Food, caffeine and fuel 11Gratitude 9Breathing 9When everything feels flat 8Listening and understanding 8Being seen and judged 8Exercise, food and other supports 8Remembering to do it 7What ADHD actually is 7Getting assessed and diagnosed 7Moving your body 7Tolerate distress 7Shared spiritual life 6Rituals of connection 6What you are actually defending 6What worry does 6Treatment and medication 6Rebuilding trust 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5Shame and stigma 5Screens and attention 5Self-compassion 4Feeling from the inside 4Question the thought 4Emotions as signals 3Safety and grounding 3Name what you feel 3Ride the urge 2The cost of avoiding 2Calm the body 2When you use something to cope 2Facing it a step at a time 2Hold a boundary 2Let the wave come 2Meaning after harm 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Patience and trust 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Shame 2Validate yourself and others 2Working with anger 2Breaking the worry loop 2Your worth is not conditional 2Ask and say no well 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Rest and pacing 1Panic and the body 1When you go numb 1Listen to the body 1Keep the bond 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Act on your values 1Your window of tolerance 1Care for yourself in loss 1

There is motion sitting inside the word emotion. Big feelings come out through the body, so if you cannot keep still while you are grieving, that is the feeling moving rather than something going wrong with you.

Think how strange it would be if someone heard they had come into a fortune and just said thank you and carried on with the morning. Joy gets up and…

A minuteLetting it out safelyGriefQur’an 12:84

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