Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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4 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for · Me
Where you are right now
Theme · Feeling from the inside
Staying regulated in conflict 46The moment before you snap 39Choosing your response 36Cool the body first 33What anger actually is 25Your nervous system 24Grounding and settling 24Medication and how it works 23Bringing the future closer 22Systems for daily life 22Answering bids 22The fear underneath anger 21Get started 20Equanimity and perspective 17Your sense of time 15Fondness and admiration 15Affection and touch 14Knowing your partner 14Practising under provocation 14Treatment and medication 14Growing empathy 13Making it stick 13Repair after rupture 13Touch and bodywork 12Structure and routine 12Feelings and focus 12Food, caffeine and fuel 11Gratitude 9Breathing 9Listening and understanding 8When everything feels flat 8Exercise, food and other supports 8Being seen and judged 8Remembering to do it 7What ADHD actually is 7Moving your body 7Tolerate distress 7Getting assessed and diagnosed 7Shared spiritual life 6What worry does 6What you are actually defending 6Rituals of connection 6Treatment and medication 6Rebuilding trust 5Screens and attention 5Shame and stigma 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5Feeling from the inside 4Question the thought 4Self-compassion 4Emotions as signals 3Safety and grounding 3Name what you feel 3Ride the urge 2Facing it a step at a time 2Notice the pattern and flex 2When you use something to cope 2Meaning after harm 2Calm the body 2The cost of avoiding 2Shame 2Working with anger 2Breaking the worry loop 2Your worth is not conditional 2Patience and trust 2Let the wave come 2Hold a boundary 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Validate yourself and others 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Rest and pacing 1Panic and the body 1When you go numb 1Your window of tolerance 1Listen to the body 1Keep the bond 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Act on your values 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Care for yourself in loss 1Ask and say no well 1
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One of the earliest signs that you are drifting out of the present is that your hands and feet go vague. Not numb exactly, just less there.

It tends to happen before you notice you have gone anywhere. If you learn your own version of it, you get an early warning: a chance to press your…

A minuteFeeling from the insideBody basedQur’an 41:53

Stand on one leg for a few breaths. Your body has to work to keep you upright, and that work is loud enough to feel on a day when nothing else registers.

Balance pulls in the joints, the inner ear and the muscles all at once, so it gives a far stronger signal than sitting still and hoping to notice…

A minuteFeeling from the insideBody basedQur’an 31:20

When what is happening inside gets too loud, turn outward. Name what you can see, listen for the furthest sound, press your feet into the floor.

This is not avoidance. The outward senses and the sense of where your body sits both carry information about now, which is exactly what the flooding…

A minuteFeeling from the insideBody basedQur’an 9:118

A long body practice is a teaching version. In real life, take one small piece: just the feet, just the hands, just a minute of noticing.

Long stretches of inward attention can tip into flooding or into drifting off, and neither leaves you better than you started. A minute done often…

A minuteFeeling from the insideMindfulnessQur’an 26:13

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.