Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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1 practice
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for · Me
Theme · Panic and the body
Staying regulated in conflict 46The moment before you snap 39Choosing your response 36Cool the body first 33What anger actually is 25Your nervous system 24Grounding and settling 24Medication and how it works 23Systems for daily life 22Bringing the future closer 22Answering bids 22The fear underneath anger 21Get started 20Equanimity and perspective 17Fondness and admiration 15Your sense of time 15Practising under provocation 14Treatment and medication 14Affection and touch 14Knowing your partner 14Growing empathy 13Repair after rupture 13Making it stick 13Touch and bodywork 12Structure and routine 12Feelings and focus 12Food, caffeine and fuel 11Breathing 9Gratitude 9Listening and understanding 8When everything feels flat 8Being seen and judged 8Exercise, food and other supports 8Remembering to do it 7Tolerate distress 7What ADHD actually is 7Getting assessed and diagnosed 7Moving your body 7Shared spiritual life 6What worry does 6Treatment and medication 6Rituals of connection 6What you are actually defending 6Screens and attention 5Shame and stigma 5Posture and how you carry yourself 5Rebuilding trust 5Self-compassion 4Feeling from the inside 4Question the thought 4Name what you feel 3Safety and grounding 3Emotions as signals 3Ride the urge 2The cost of avoiding 2Calm the body 2When you use something to cope 2Facing it a step at a time 2Hold a boundary 2Let the wave come 2Meaning after harm 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Patience and trust 2Righteous anger and perfectionism 2Shame 2Validate yourself and others 2Working with anger 2Breaking the worry loop 2Your worth is not conditional 2Care for yourself in loss 1Ask and say no well 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Panic and the body 1When you go numb 1Listen to the body 1Keep the bond 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Act on your values 1Rest and pacing 1Your window of tolerance 1

The speed is why these work and also what they cost. Relief that lands within the half hour is the most teachable kind there is, and what it teaches is to reach for it sooner next time.

How fast a drug comes on drives that learning more than how long it hangs around afterwards. Better to name it out loud with someone than leave them…

A minutePanic and the bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 13:28

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