Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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63 practices
How long you have
Who it is written for · Me
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Moving your body
Medication and how it works 155Your nervous system 113Systems for daily life 103What anger actually is 89The moment before you snap 88Choosing your response 81Get started 73Grounding and settling 67Equanimity and perspective 66Moving your body 63Cool the body first 61Staying regulated in conflict 60Food, caffeine and fuel 59Feelings and focus 58The fear underneath anger 58Bringing the future closer 58Your sense of time 58Touch and bodywork 56Getting assessed and diagnosed 50What ADHD actually is 48Practising under provocation 46Exercise, food and other supports 46When everything feels flat 44Treatment and medication 42Screens and attention 40Breathing 34Growing empathy 34Making it stick 30Shame and stigma 30Being seen and judged 30Structure and routine 28Tolerate distress 26Remembering to do it 26Treatment and medication 25Knowing your partner 25What worry does 25Answering bids 24Feeling from the inside 23What you are actually defending 23Breaking the worry loop 23Emotions as signals 22When you use something to cope 22Repair after rupture 19Facing it a step at a time 18Shared spiritual life 17Rebuilding trust 17Affection and touch 15Fondness and admiration 15Obsessions and compulsions 14Listening and understanding 13Righteous anger and perfectionism 13Rituals of connection 13Shame 13Posture and how you carry yourself 13Self-compassion 12Question the thought 11Use your strengths 10Gratitude 9Anger, alcohol and the body 8The cost of avoiding 7Living with uncertainty 5Rest and pacing 5When you go numb 5When anger turns to harm 5Safety and grounding 4Letting it out safely 4Meaning after harm 4Working with anger 3Your worth is not conditional 3Panic and the body 3Act on your values 3Notice the pattern and flex 3Name what you feel 3Calm the body 3Let the wave come 3Face it gently 2Patience and trust 2Work with your brain 2Hold a boundary 2Keep the bond 2Care for yourself in loss 2Ride the urge 2Validate yourself and others 2Listen to the body 2Get it out of your head 2Help someone grieving 2Find meaning 2Ask and say no well 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Your window of tolerance 2
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A few sessions give you an effect that fades. A few months of it starts to change your baseline. Plan for the longer version if you can.

One class leaves you calmer for an afternoon, which is real and also temporary. Fifteen weeks of the same practice is where people start reporting…

LongerMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 12:47

An hour a day of moving enough to warm you and shorten your breath. Keep a record of it, on a watch or on a scrap of paper, because meeting a number you can see turns out to be quietly satisfying.

It does not have to arrive in one block and it does not have to look like exercise. Walking to the shop, taking the stairs, standing at the desk for…

LongerMoving your bodyMedical and treatmentQur’an 53:40

If talking about it has not shifted things, a body based practice is worth trying next. It is not a consolation prize.

Some of what trauma leaves behind sits underneath words: the flinch, the going blank, the pull towards hurting yourself. Practices that work through…

LongerMoving your bodyBody basedQur’an 2:60

Looking for a whole subject rather than a single practice? Start from the nine areas.