Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Letting it out safely Five minutes Someone I care about Clear all

How long you have · Five minutes

A minute 1 Five minutes 1 Twenty minutes 2

Who it is written for · Someone I care about

Someone I care about 1 A practitioner 1 Me 1

Theme · Letting it out safely

Medication and how it works 71 Your nervous system 57 What anger actually is 42 Systems for daily life 39 Exercise, food and other supports 38 What ADHD actually is 36 Your sense of time 33 Equanimity and perspective 30 Grounding and settling 26 Treatment and medication 25 Moving your body 24 Screens and attention 23 The fear underneath anger 22 What worry does 22 Shame and stigma 20 The cost of avoiding 16 Bringing the future closer 15 Get started 15 Breaking the worry loop 15 What you are actually defending 15 Feelings and focus 15 Breathing 14 Cool the body first 14 Reading, numbers and learning differences 13 Structure and routine 13 Remembering to do it 12 The moment before you snap 12 Facing it a step at a time 11 Food, caffeine and fuel 10 When anger turns to harm 9 When you use something to cope 9 Righteous anger and perfectionism 8 Making it stick 8 Self-compassion 7 Growing empathy 7 Choosing your response 7 When everything feels flat 6 Emotions as signals 6 Tolerate distress 4 Being seen and judged 3 Shame 3 Getting assessed and diagnosed 3 Anger, alcohol and the body 2 Obsessions and compulsions 2 Practising under provocation 2 Touch and bodywork 1 Living with uncertainty 1 Use your strengths 1 Help someone grieving 1 Feeling from the inside 1 Letting it out safely 1 Rest and pacing 1 Question the thought 1

Punching something to get the anger out is the piece of grief advice that gets argued over most, and the honest answer is that hitting rarely leaves a person calmer.

Plenty of good people will tell you a bag is better than a wall or a face, and there is something in that. What has not held up is the older idea…

Five minutesLetting it out safelyGriefQur’an 14:26

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