Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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When anger turns to harm Twenty minutes Someone I care about Clear all

How long you have · Twenty minutes

A minute 2 Five minutes 9 Twenty minutes 2

Who it is written for · Someone I care about

A practitioner 4 Me 2 Someone I care about 2

On your own, or with someone

Both of us together 1 On my own 1

Theme · When anger turns to harm

Systems for daily life 37 Moving your body 26 Medication and how it works 20 Screens and attention 16 What ADHD actually is 15 The cost of avoiding 15 Treatment and medication 14 Reading, numbers and learning differences 12 Your nervous system 11 Get started 10 Your sense of time 10 Feelings and focus 8 Exercise, food and other supports 8 Bringing the future closer 7 What anger actually is 7 Grounding and settling 6 Breaking the worry loop 6 Food, caffeine and fuel 5 Remembering to do it 5 Breathing 5 Shame and stigma 5 Cool the body first 5 The fear underneath anger 4 Facing it a step at a time 4 When you use something to cope 4 Structure and routine 3 Anger, alcohol and the body 3 The moment before you snap 3 What worry does 3 Tolerate distress 2 Equanimity and perspective 2 Letting it out safely 2 Making it stick 2 When everything feels flat 2 Righteous anger and perfectionism 2 Shame 2 When anger turns to harm 2 Touch and bodywork 2 Use your strengths 2 What you are actually defending 1 Rest and pacing 1 Obsessions and compulsions 1 Getting assessed and diagnosed 1 Growing empathy 1 Choosing your response 1 Being seen and judged 1

Ask whether the anger is really about this person at all, or whether it is contempt for a whole category of people that happens to have someone standing nearby.

It sounds different once you listen for it. The complaints come out in the plural, about how women are or what wives do, and the particular person in…

Twenty minutesWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 16:90

If the harm has only ever happened when someone had been drinking, the drinking is not the background to an anger problem. It is the anger problem.

Families often know this long before anyone says it aloud: he is fine, except. Go through it honestly, every incident, drunk or sober, and if…

Twenty minutesWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 4:29

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