Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
2 practicesHow long you have · Twenty minutes
Who it is written for · Someone I care about
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Making it stick
Knowing something calmly and feeling it are two separate achievements, and the second takes longer. If you can say the reasonable thing but it does not touch how you feel, you are partway, not failing.
The gap does not close by arguing with yourself harder. It closes by living it: doing the practice in real situations, in your body, while the…
When something is genuinely alive for the person in front of you, work with that. Whatever you had planned to cover keeps until a quieter week.
Teaching over the top of live feeling does not land, and it tells the other person that your agenda outranks their week. When there is heat, follow…
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