Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Theme · When you use something to cope
Medication and how it works 22Systems for daily life 20Get started 20Bringing the future closer 17Structure and routine 16The moment before you snap 16Your nervous system 15Choosing your response 14Your sense of time 14Fondness and admiration 14Growing empathy 13Treatment and medication 13Knowing your partner 11Answering bids 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Exercise, food and other supports 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Making it stick 9What anger actually is 9Gratitude 9Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Cool the body first 8Listening and understanding 8Touch and bodywork 8What ADHD actually is 7Screens and attention 7Breathing 7Grounding and settling 7Moving your body 7Affection and touch 6Feelings and focus 6When everything feels flat 6Remembering to do it 6Being seen and judged 5The cost of avoiding 5The fear underneath anger 5Shared spiritual life 5Equanimity and perspective 5Treatment and medication 5Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Practising under provocation 4What worry does 3When you use something to cope 3Self-compassion 3Emotions as signals 3Feeling from the inside 3Rebuilding trust 2Question the thought 2Tolerate distress 2Facing it a step at a time 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Notice the pattern and flex 2What you are actually defending 2Your worth is not conditional 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Repair after rupture 1Shame 1Panic and the body 1Breaking the worry loop 1Keep the bond 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Rituals of connection 1

Not feeling sleepy is not the same as not being affected. Younger drinkers often stay awake through a great deal more than their body is actually handling.

The tiredness that ends an older person's night arrives much later, so the evening runs on and the amount climbs with it. Which is why a limit has to…

A minuteWhen you use something to copeDBT skillsQur’an 7:31

A tablet is not safer because of where it started out. Taken by someone it was never prescribed for, it is simply an unprescribed drug.

Borrowed stimulants get treated as harmless because a doctor's name is on the box somewhere. The dose was worked out for another person's body and…

A minuteWhen you use something to copeDBT skillsQur’an 2:168

When someone tells you how much they use, take it as a floor rather than a total. Then keep that adjustment to yourself.

Under-reporting is rarely a lie. There is legal risk, there is shame, and there is genuinely losing count. So plan around a larger figure than the…

A minuteWhen you use something to copeDBT skillsQur’an 12:53

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