Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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9 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Food, caffeine and fuel
Medication and how it works 22Get started 20Systems for daily life 20Bringing the future closer 17The moment before you snap 16Structure and routine 16Your nervous system 15Fondness and admiration 14Choosing your response 14Your sense of time 14Treatment and medication 13Growing empathy 13Answering bids 11Knowing your partner 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Gratitude 9What anger actually is 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Making it stick 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Listening and understanding 8Touch and bodywork 8Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Cool the body first 8Breathing 7Moving your body 7Grounding and settling 7Screens and attention 7What ADHD actually is 7Feelings and focus 6Affection and touch 6When everything feels flat 6Remembering to do it 6Treatment and medication 5Being seen and judged 5The cost of avoiding 5The fear underneath anger 5Shared spiritual life 5Equanimity and perspective 5Practising under provocation 4Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Feeling from the inside 3Emotions as signals 3When you use something to cope 3What worry does 3Self-compassion 3Your worth is not conditional 2What you are actually defending 2Question the thought 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Tolerate distress 2Rebuilding trust 2Facing it a step at a time 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Rituals of connection 1Repair after rupture 1Breaking the worry loop 1Panic and the body 1Keep the bond 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Shame 1
When · Any ordinary day

Allergies turn up more often alongside ADHD than chance would predict. Worth mentioning your allergy history at an assessment even when nobody asks, since the two seem to travel together.

The likeliest explanation is not that one causes the other. It is that some of the same underlying wiring makes both more likely in the same person.…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

Some foods are formulated to be hard to stop eating. That is a design brief rather than a flaw in you, and it goes some way to explaining why one particular snack is the one you think about at eleven at night.

Knowing this moves the fight somewhere you can win it. Willpower at the moment of craving is a poor bet, and a decision made in the shop is a much…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:172

Here is a question that costs nothing: has anyone in your family been told their vitamin D was low? It runs in families through genes, skin tone, where you live and how much time anyone spends outside.

The clinician telling this story found out only afterwards that his mother, father and brother had all been low. Nobody had mentioned it, because it…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 15:22

Even where a herb has good evidence behind it, that evidence belongs to the plant and not to the bottle in your hand. Testing keeps turning up products that do not contain what the label says.

This part of the argument does not depend on whether herbal remedies work. You could accept every claim made for a plant and still be left with the…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

Own brand products from large retailers were among the worst performers in these tests. A big name on the packet is not a quality check, however much it feels like one.

Own label goods are usually made under contract on thin margins with no independent verification of what comes out the other end. So the reassurance…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:66

People often turn to herbal remedies hoping to avoid side effects. Plants are chemistry too, and some of them interact with prescribed medication in ways that matter.

A plant extract is not one substance, it is a mixture of many, which gives it more places to interact rather than fewer. Origin has nothing to do…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Around seven in ten people who use herbal products never mention it to their doctor. Not out of secrecy, mostly because a tea or a gummy does not feel like it belongs on a list of medications.

The useful move is to answer a wider question than the one you were asked. When someone asks what medication you take, tell them what else you take…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 106:4

Your gut is not just plumbing. It makes many of the same chemicals your brain runs on and it is in constant conversation with your nervous system, which is part of why a bad stretch of digestion and a low mood so often turn up together.

If your stomach has been unsettled for weeks and your mood has slid over the same weeks, you do not have to work out which one is the real problem.…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

Put a rubber band round your water bottle for each refill you want to get through today, and slide one off each time you finish it. Nothing to remember, nothing to buy, and you can see where you are at a glance.

Tracking anything in your head is hard when your head is already full, and harder still when concentration is one of the things that has taken a hit.…

A minuteFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:10

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