Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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Theme · Exercise, food and other supports
Medication and how it works 22Get started 20Systems for daily life 20Bringing the future closer 17The moment before you snap 16Structure and routine 16Your nervous system 15Fondness and admiration 14Your sense of time 14Choosing your response 14Growing empathy 13Treatment and medication 13Knowing your partner 11Answering bids 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Making it stick 9What anger actually is 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Gratitude 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Listening and understanding 8Cool the body first 8Touch and bodywork 8Moving your body 7What ADHD actually is 7Grounding and settling 7Screens and attention 7Breathing 7Affection and touch 6Feelings and focus 6When everything feels flat 6Remembering to do it 6Equanimity and perspective 5Being seen and judged 5Treatment and medication 5The fear underneath anger 5Shared spiritual life 5The cost of avoiding 5Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Practising under provocation 4What worry does 3Emotions as signals 3Self-compassion 3Feeling from the inside 3When you use something to cope 3Your worth is not conditional 2Rebuilding trust 2Tolerate distress 2Question the thought 2What you are actually defending 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Facing it a step at a time 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Face it gently 1Keep the bond 1Breaking the worry loop 1Panic and the body 1Repair after rupture 1Shame 1Rituals of connection 1Get it out of your head 1

There is no brain scan, EEG trace or blood test that can tell you whether someone has ADHD. Anything sold as an objective biological test for it is promising more than the science can give.

Group differences do exist, including in the theta to beta balance, but a difference that appears when you average hundreds of people cannot identify…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:247

Balance difficulties do turn up more often in ADHD, by something like half again. That is a fact about company, not about cause, and it does not turn balance training into a treatment.

Plenty of things could sit behind a link like that. More falls and knocks, more risk taken, or genetics feeding both at once. Working on balance…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Protocols that spin a child in a chair or tip them backwards and forwards to train balance do not improve ADHD. What they mainly produce is a dizzy child.

There is a cost beyond the wasted afternoons. Something unpleasant that was introduced as treatment teaches a child what treatment feels like, and…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 31:19

Try swapping the word picky for particular. A fair number of people with ADHD have more densely packed taste buds, so the bitterness in a sprout arrives at full volume.

That changes what is going on at the table. A child is not refusing in order to be difficult, they are tasting something stronger than you are.…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 80:24

The amount in a capsule can vary from bottle to bottle, and sometimes between capsules in the same bottle. Undeclared fillers have been found in them too.

This matters most when you are trying to work out whether something helps you. A good month followed by a flat one may be two different products…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 17:12

Kava can damage the liver at a high enough dose, badly enough that some countries have banned it. Herbal is not a synonym for gentle.

The unnerving part is how quiet liver damage is. Someone self medicating anxiety with kava can be accumulating harm and feel nothing at all until it…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 20:81

Vitamin C cannot really be stockpiled, since the excess leaves in your urine. A, D, E and K are stored in fat, so a large daily dose keeps adding to itself.

Vitamin D is where this bites at the moment, after a lot of people started taking big amounts on their own during the pandemic years. If you are…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:31

Omega supplements thin the blood, so they usually do not belong alongside warfarin. Bruising easily is often the first thing anyone notices.

One clinician worked out that her husband's bruising came from taking omegas on top of his Coumadin, and it settled once his doctor told him to stop.…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 73:20

If fish oil gives you those horrible repeats all afternoon, that is a fixable problem rather than a reason to stop. Keep the capsules in the freezer, ask about an enteric coated version, or try a flavoured liquid.

Sticking with something usually fails for small unglamorous reasons like this. Someone with a sensitive palate will not last four weeks with an…

A minuteExercise, food and other supportsMedical and treatmentQur’an 16:69

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