Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

Narrowed down

1 practice
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Theme · Shame
Medication and how it works 22Systems for daily life 20Get started 20Bringing the future closer 17The moment before you snap 16Structure and routine 16Your nervous system 15Fondness and admiration 14Your sense of time 14Choosing your response 14Treatment and medication 13Growing empathy 13Answering bids 11Knowing your partner 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Gratitude 9What anger actually is 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Making it stick 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Cool the body first 8Touch and bodywork 8Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Listening and understanding 8Grounding and settling 7Breathing 7Moving your body 7Screens and attention 7What ADHD actually is 7Affection and touch 6Feelings and focus 6When everything feels flat 6Remembering to do it 6The cost of avoiding 5The fear underneath anger 5Treatment and medication 5Shared spiritual life 5Equanimity and perspective 5Being seen and judged 5Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Practising under provocation 4Feeling from the inside 3Emotions as signals 3When you use something to cope 3Self-compassion 3What worry does 3Facing it a step at a time 2What you are actually defending 2Tolerate distress 2Your worth is not conditional 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Question the thought 2Rebuilding trust 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Repair after rupture 1Shame 1Panic and the body 1Breaking the worry loop 1Keep the bond 1Get it out of your head 1Face it gently 1Rituals of connection 1
When · Any ordinary day

With someone carrying old shame, ask about the closeness itself. Is it alright that I am sitting here with you? Would a bit more space help? Then adjust, and let them see you adjust.

Small changes work best. Shifting your chair back slightly, looking away for a moment, softening your voice, then checking what that was like for…

A minuteShameTrauma informedQur’an 20:122

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