Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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4 practices
How long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
Theme · Shame and stigma
Medication and how it works 22Get started 20Systems for daily life 20Bringing the future closer 17Structure and routine 16The moment before you snap 16Your nervous system 15Fondness and admiration 14Your sense of time 14Choosing your response 14Growing empathy 13Treatment and medication 13Knowing your partner 11Answering bids 11Staying regulated in conflict 10Making it stick 9What anger actually is 9Exercise, food and other supports 9Gratitude 9Food, caffeine and fuel 9Getting assessed and diagnosed 8Listening and understanding 8Cool the body first 8Touch and bodywork 8Moving your body 7What ADHD actually is 7Grounding and settling 7Screens and attention 7Breathing 7Affection and touch 6Feelings and focus 6When everything feels flat 6Remembering to do it 6Equanimity and perspective 5Being seen and judged 5Treatment and medication 5The fear underneath anger 5Shared spiritual life 5The cost of avoiding 5Shame and stigma 4Posture and how you carry yourself 4Practising under provocation 4What worry does 3Emotions as signals 3Self-compassion 3Feeling from the inside 3When you use something to cope 3Your worth is not conditional 2Rebuilding trust 2Tolerate distress 2Question the thought 2What you are actually defending 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Notice the pattern and flex 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Facing it a step at a time 2Anger, alcohol and the body 1Face it gently 1Keep the bond 1Breaking the worry loop 1Panic and the body 1Repair after rupture 1Shame 1Rituals of connection 1Get it out of your head 1
When · Any ordinary day

ADD and ADHD are not two different things. ADD is the older public word for what is now called ADHD, inattentive type, and the quieter presentation is not a lighter version of it.

The mix up matters more than it sounds. Parents sometimes hear ADD and take it to mean something mild that will not need treatment, and school or…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 33:5

Manuals rename things. Paediatric bipolar became disruptive mood dysregulation disorder, whole categories were reshuffled to line up with the international classification, and none of it changed who anybody was.

If you have old paperwork carrying a label nobody uses now, that is bookkeeping rather than a hidden verdict on you. What is worth your attention is…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 17:84

A blank face is not usually an angry one. If you tend to read disappointment into people who are only tired or thinking, that reading is a habit, and habits can be checked.

Two things feed it. Reading faces accurately is genuinely harder for some people with ADHD, and if you grew up being told off a great deal, expecting…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 49:12

Talking a lot is on the diagnostic list. It sits with the impulsive symptoms, which makes it part of the condition rather than proof that you are self absorbed.

That reframe is worth having, because most people who do this have been told off for it for years and have drawn an unkind conclusion about…

A minuteShame and stigmaADHD skillsQur’an 48:17

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