Practices

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Your window of tolerance Any ordinary day Clear all

Theme · Your window of tolerance

Medication and how it works 148Systems for daily life 90 Your nervous system 87 Get started 69 Getting assessed and diagnosed 64 What anger actually is 58 Your sense of time 58 Moving your body 56 Exercise, food and other supports 55 Food, caffeine and fuel 53 The moment before you snap 49 Treatment and medication 48 What ADHD actually is 48 Bringing the future closer 46 Choosing your response 45 Screens and attention 44 Touch and bodywork 38 Equanimity and perspective 37 Grounding and settling 34 When everything feels flat 34 Structure and routine 33 Feelings and focus 32 Reading, numbers and learning differences 31 The fear underneath anger 31 Practising under provocation 30 Growing empathy 29 What worry does 26 Shame and stigma 25 Cool the body first 25 Making it stick 24 The cost of avoiding 24 Being seen and judged 24 Breathing 24 Treatment and medication 23 Knowing your partner 20 Remembering to do it 20 When you use something to cope 19 Breaking the worry loop 16 Shared spiritual life 16 Feeling from the inside 16 Facing it a step at a time 16 Fondness and admiration 14 What you are actually defending 14 Righteous anger and perfectionism 13 Emotions as signals 13 Obsessions and compulsions 13 Tolerate distress 12 Answering bids 12 Staying regulated in conflict 11 Listening and understanding 10 Gratitude 9 Posture and how you carry yourself 9 Self-compassion 8 Use your strengths 8 Rituals of connection 7 Shame 7 Affection and touch 7 Question the thought 6 When anger turns to harm 6 Anger, alcohol and the body 6 Rebuilding trust 5 Repair after rupture 3 Rest and pacing 3 When you go numb 3 Notice the pattern and flex 3 Living with uncertainty 3 Panic and the body 3 Your worth is not conditional 3 Work with your brain 2 Meaning after harm 2 Get it out of your head 2 Find meaning 2 Face it gently 2 Act on your values 2 Keep the bond 2 Safety and grounding 1 Listen to the body 1 Your window of tolerance 1 Care for yourself in loss 1

When · Any ordinary day

Any ordinary day 1 Under stress 1

Learn your signs of too high (racing, panicky) and too low (numb, shut down). Aim for the steady middle.

There is a zone where you can feel and still think. Knowing when you are leaving it is half the skill.

Five minutesYour window of toleranceTrauma informedQur’an 89:27

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