Practices

Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.

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30 practices
How long you have · Five minutes
Who it is written for
Where you are right now
On your own, or with someone
Theme · Food, caffeine and fuel
Medication and how it works 111Your nervous system 73What anger actually is 60Getting assessed and diagnosed 59Equanimity and perspective 44Touch and bodywork 43Systems for daily life 40Exercise, food and other supports 39The moment before you snap 39Your sense of time 38What ADHD actually is 37Choosing your response 35When everything feels flat 35Grounding and settling 35Get started 35Screens and attention 31Treatment and medication 31Food, caffeine and fuel 30Feelings and focus 29The fear underneath anger 29Practising under provocation 28Bringing the future closer 27Moving your body 24Cool the body first 23What worry does 23Shame and stigma 20Breathing 19Emotions as signals 19Feeling from the inside 17What you are actually defending 16The cost of avoiding 16Structure and routine 16Breaking the worry loop 15Reading, numbers and learning differences 15Remembering to do it 15Growing empathy 14Being seen and judged 14Facing it a step at a time 13Making it stick 12Treatment and medication 12When you use something to cope 12Righteous anger and perfectionism 11Obsessions and compulsions 11Tolerate distress 11Rebuilding trust 9Staying regulated in conflict 9When anger turns to harm 9Knowing your partner 8Self-compassion 7Shame 7When you go numb 6Posture and how you carry yourself 6Listening and understanding 5Question the thought 5Shared spiritual life 4Rituals of connection 3Living with uncertainty 3Use your strengths 3Find meaning 2Repair after rupture 2Panic and the body 2Act on your values 2Rest and pacing 2Anger, alcohol and the body 2Meaning after harm 2Work with your brain 2Your window of tolerance 1Get it out of your head 1Ask and say no well 1Let the wave come 1Help someone grieving 1Your worth is not conditional 1Face it gently 1Letting it out safely 1Working with anger 1Notice the pattern and flex 1Affection and touch 1Calm the body 1
When

Some of these do have real evidence behind them. St John's wort has repeated support in mild to moderate depression, SAMe and methylfolate have reasonable backing as additions to treatment, and omega-3 has looked weaker in the larger and better run trials.

That last part is worth sitting with, because it is what usually happens. An early promising effect shrinks as trials get bigger and better…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 7:32

If you want to use herbal remedies, two things carry most of the risk. Make sure whoever prescribes for you knows what you are taking, and buy from a source that has been independently tested.

That is a short list on purpose. Nearly all the harm in this area comes from an interaction nobody knew about or a product that was not what it…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:168

Herbal products are rarely covered by insurance and they add up quickly. That cost belongs in the decision, particularly when you cannot be sure the capsule holds what it says.

Money spent here is money not spent elsewhere, and often the alternative is a treatment that is covered and has been tested. Nobody is telling you…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 6:141

What you feel does not stay in your head. Emotional states register in the body's immune signalling too, which is one reason a long stretch of unspoken distress can leave you physically run down.

This is not a claim that you can think yourself well or ill. It is closer to saying the body keeps a tally. If you have been carrying something heavy…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:172

Water, sleep, food and digestion are not the boring preamble to the real work. When those are running badly, everything else you try has less to work with.

It can feel almost insulting to be asked about breakfast when what you carry is so much bigger than breakfast. But a body short of sleep and short of…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 26:79

Health advice usually assumes a kitchen, a fridge and money for the week. If you are working with less than that, the answer is not to try harder at the advice. It is to shrink the plan until it fits what you actually have.

A plan you cannot keep does more than fail. It quietly adds to the pile of evidence that nothing you do makes any difference, and that pile is heavy…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:185

When digestion goes wrong there are usually two things to look at rather than one: something you are eating that does not suit you, and a body too braced to digest properly. Checking only one door tends to leave you stuck.

Digestion mostly happens when your body believes it is safe. If you eat every meal with your shoulders up round your ears, that alone can show up as…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 106:4

A physical symptom is not a free floating fact. Read it next to what your life has actually held, the early parts included, and it often makes more sense than it does on its own.

This works in both directions. It stops you treating a body complaint as something random that landed on you, and it stops you treating it as a…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 15:22

Saying a difficulty is in the past is not the same as saying it was never real. Sometimes a picture changes because something that was making it worse got taken away, and the honest words for that are neither cured nor imagining it.

People who have been disbelieved by doctors are very sensitive to this, and with reason. The choice usually gets offered as either it was all in your…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 2:184

Months of fog, where thinking feels like wading, is a real complaint and deserves looking into rather than waving away. It usually has more than one cause, which is part of why it gets dismissed.

Fog sits where several things overlap: dissociation, anxiety, poor sleep, thyroid and iron problems, infections, medication. Because it belongs…

Five minutesFood, caffeine and fuelMedical and treatmentQur’an 6:99

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