Practices

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Ask and say no well Five minutes Coping, mostly Clear all

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Theme · Ask and say no well

Medication and how it works 63 Getting assessed and diagnosed 41 Your nervous system 37 What anger actually is 36 Systems for daily life 31 Equanimity and perspective 29 Exercise, food and other supports 27 Your sense of time 25 Touch and bodywork 23 Get started 23 What ADHD actually is 22 Bringing the future closer 21 Treatment and medication 20 The moment before you snap 19 When everything feels flat 19 The fear underneath anger 18 Feelings and focus 17 Choosing your response 17 What worry does 17 Moving your body 17 Practising under provocation 17 Screens and attention 16 Grounding and settling 14 What you are actually defending 14 Food, caffeine and fuel 13 Emotions as signals 12 Structure and routine 12 Righteous anger and perfectionism 11 Breathing 10 Staying regulated in conflict 9 The cost of avoiding 9 Being seen and judged 9 Growing empathy 9 Feeling from the inside 9 Rebuilding trust 9 Treatment and medication 8 Knowing your partner 8 Breaking the worry loop 7 Making it stick 7 Shame and stigma 6 Cool the body first 6 Remembering to do it 6 Listening and understanding 5 Self-compassion 5 Tolerate distress 5 When you use something to cope 5 When anger turns to harm 5 Reading, numbers and learning differences 4 Facing it a step at a time 4 Shared spiritual life 4 Posture and how you carry yourself 3 Obsessions and compulsions 3 Rituals of connection 3 Use your strengths 3 Panic and the body 2 Repair after rupture 2 Anger, alcohol and the body 2 Work with your brain 2 Act on your values 2 Find meaning 2 Meaning after harm 2 Get it out of your head 1 Face it gently 1 Calm the body 1 Ask and say no well 1 Affection and touch 1 Shame 1 Rest and pacing 1 Question the thought 1 Living with uncertainty 1 When you go numb 1 Notice the pattern and flex 1 Your window of tolerance 1 Working with anger 1 Let the wave come 1 Your worth is not conditional 1 Help someone grieving 1

Ask plainly: name the facts, say how you feel, say what you want, in a few clear sentences.

Drop the hinting. State the situation, your feeling, and the request. Clear is kind.

Five minutesAsk and say no wellDBT skillsQur’an 17:53

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