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On your own, or with someone
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Theme · When anger turns to harm
Staying regulated in conflict 46Choosing your response 25Answering bids 22The fear underneath anger 18Medication and how it works 18The moment before you snap 17Bringing the future closer 17Fondness and admiration 15Your nervous system 15Knowing your partner 14Equanimity and perspective 14Affection and touch 14Repair after rupture 13What anger actually is 13Systems for daily life 13Get started 13Your sense of time 12Cool the body first 12Growing empathy 12Treatment and medication 11Structure and routine 10Gratitude 9Grounding and settling 9Feelings and focus 8Listening and understanding 8When everything feels flat 8Moving your body 7Getting assessed and diagnosed 7Shared spiritual life 6Rituals of connection 6Making it stick 6Touch and bodywork 6Remembering to do it 6Exercise, food and other supports 6Emotions as signals 5Screens and attention 5Being seen and judged 5What you are actually defending 5Rebuilding trust 5Breathing 4Treatment and medication 4Food, caffeine and fuel 4Practising under provocation 4Shame and stigma 4Tolerate distress 4When you use something to cope 3Name what you feel 3The cost of avoiding 3Safety and grounding 3What ADHD actually is 3Self-compassion 3Question the thought 3What worry does 3Notice the pattern and flex 2When anger turns to harm 2Calm the body 2Facing it a step at a time 2Hold a boundary 2Reading, numbers and learning differences 2Let the wave come 2Meaning after harm 2Obsessions and compulsions 2Patience and trust 2Ride the urge 2Shame 2Validate yourself and others 2Working with anger 2Your worth is not conditional 2Breaking the worry loop 1Anger, alcohol and the body 1Righteous anger and perfectionism 1Panic and the body 1Act on your values 1Listen to the body 1Keep the bond 1Help someone grieving 1Get it out of your head 1Feeling from the inside 1Face it gently 1Care for yourself in loss 1Your window of tolerance 1Ask and say no well 1

Whatever is driving it, behaviour that frightens someone is frightening. The reason behind it does not soften what it was like to stand on the other side of it.

Two people can do something that looks identical from outside and mean quite different things by it. That difference matters for what will help the…

A minuteWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 24:15

Working out what someone meant by hurting another person is a conversation for the person who did it. Said to the one who was harmed, they were not really trying to hurt you lands as being talked out of your own experience.

Anyone who has been on the receiving end of violence has usually spent a long time being told it was not what it was. Even a kindly meant explanation…

A minuteWhen anger turns to harmCoreQur’an 4:148

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