Practices
Every practice in the library, in one list. Narrow it by how long you have, who it is written for, and where you are right now.
Narrowed down
3 practicesHow long you have · A minute
Who it is written for
Where you are right now · Coping, mostly
Theme · What worry does
Watch for the moment a what if turns into a when. That small slide, from a possibility into something you can already picture in detail, is where worry does most of its damage.
The detail is what convinces you. Your mind supplies the phone call, the face, the exact words, and the body answers the picture as though it were…
There is a small gap between something happening and the story you tell yourself about it. That gap is the cheapest place to step in.
Once the story is running the body is already going and everything gets harder. So build one small habit at the front end: a slow breath out when the…
A car coming at you and a spider across the room set off the same alarm. Naming which one you are facing, before you act on it, is a skill worth practising.
Say it plainly to yourself: this is dangerous, or this is uncomfortable. Both are true of different things and the second does not require you to…
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